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Saturday, 8 September 2012

Damned if you do

4478 Ducklings
Image '4478 Ducklings' originally uploaded to flickr by lorisrandom

Warning: brief rant ahoy.

I have a friend who is choosing to return to work when her baby is nine months old.

I have a friend who is choosing not to return to work now she has two children.

Both have been criticised - or feel that they are being judged, implicitly or explicitly - by friends and strangers alike for their decision.

There is no "one size fits all" - clearly, you are damned if you do, and damned if you don't, I guess?  Surely the best decision is the one that works for that specific family in that specific situation?

Ooof.


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