"Cultivate a healthy attitude to time ... Don't get hung up on what has happened or will happen. You can't control either. The present is all you've ever got."
"All life is paradox. Nothing can ever be finally worked out ... Embrace ignorance brightly – not knowing is what makes life worth living. To know everything would be hell."
"... don't judge others, or yourself, too harshly ... Be good, but don't try to be better than you are."
Wise words from Guardian columnist Tim Lott in 'In the company of women', 14 July 2012
